6 Signs You Are Not Really Christian

SERMON TOPIC:

6 SIGNS SOMEONE ISN’T REALLY CHRISTIAN.

“A Christian by Name, or a Christian by Nature?”

Text:

Matthew 7:21–23; 2 Corinthians 13:5; 1 John 2:3–6

🔥 NOT EVERYONE WHO SAYS “LORD” KNOWS THE LORD.

There is a dangerous assumption in Christianity today:
“If someone goes to church, carries a Bible, posts Bible verses, sings worship songs, or calls Jesus ‘Lord,’ then that person must be a Christian.”
But Jesus warned us that this is not always true.

“Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven.” — Matthew 7:2
That statement should make every one of us pause.
Jesus did not say, “Not everyone who attends church.”
He said, “Not everyone who says, ‘Lord, Lord.’”
This means it is possible to have Christian language without Christian life.
It is possible to have a Bible in your hand but not have Christ in your heart.
It is possible to be active in church but inactive in obedience.
It is possible to know Christian songs without knowing Christ.
And therefore, the question today is not:
“Do people think I am a Christian?”
The question is:
“Does my life give evidence that I truly belong to Christ?”
This message is not designed to judge other people. It is a mirror before it becomes a weapon.
Before you examine your neighbor, examine yourself.

LOOK AT THE 6 SIGNS:-

THEY HAVE NO GENUINE DESIRE TO OBEY CHRIST.
A genuine Christian is not perfect, but there is a genuine desire to please God.
Jesus said:

“If ye love me, keep my commandments.” — John 14:15
Obedience does not save us; Christ saves us.
But genuine salvation produces a desire to obey the One who saved us.
Someone may say:
“Jesus is my Lord.”
But if Jesus is truly Lord, He must have authority over your decisions.
You cannot continually say:
“Jesus is Lord,”
while your lifestyle says:
“I am my own lord.”
Important distinction
A true Christian can fall into sin.
But there is a difference between:
falling into sin and building your life around sin.
There is a difference between:
“Lord, I have failed. Forgive me.”
and:
“I know it is wrong, but I don’t care.”
The first demonstrates repentance.
The second demonstrates rebellion.
2. THEY HAVE NO EVIDENCE OF SPIRITUAL FRUIT.
Jesus said:
“Ye shall know them by their fruits.” — Matthew 7:16
Notice that Jesus did not say:
“You shall know them by their clothes.”
He did not say:
“You shall know them by their church attendance.”
He said:
“By their fruits.”
What is growing in your life?
Is there increasing love?
Is there increasing patience?
Is there forgiveness?
Is there humility?
Is there self-control?
Is there compassion?
Is there holiness?
Galatians 5:22–23 describes the fruit of the Spirit.

A genuine Christian should show evidence of spiritual transformation.
Not perfection.
Transformation.
If someone has been claiming Christ for years but there is absolutely no evidence of Christlike character, that should lead to serious self-examination.
3. THEY LOVE THE WORLD MORE THAN THEY LOVE GOD.
1 John 2:15 says:

“Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world.”
The Bible is not saying Christians cannot enjoy God’s creation, work hard, have possessions, or live normal lives.
The warning is about worldliness becoming the master of the heart.
When money becomes more important than righteousness…
When popularity becomes more important than holiness…
When sexual pleasure becomes more important than obedience…
When social media approval becomes more important than God’s approval…
When material possessions become our identity…
Something is wrong.
Jesus asked:
“For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?” — Mark 8:36
A Christian lives in the world, but the world must not live in the Christian’s heart.
4. THEY HAVE NO LOVE FOR OTHER BELIEVERS.
This is one of the strongest biblical tests.
1 John 3:14 says:
“He that loveth not his brother abideth in death.”
Christianity is not merely about loving God with our lips.
It also affects how we treat people.
You cannot continually hate everyone, refuse forgiveness, enjoy destroying people’s reputations, and then claim that your relationship with Christ is healthy.
Jesus said:
“By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” — John 13:35
Love does not mean allowing people to abuse you.
Love does not mean approving everything people do.
Love means treating people with the character of Christ.
Ask yourself:
How do I treat people who cannot benefit me?
How do I treat those who disagree with me?
How do I respond when someone succeeds?
Can I forgive?
Can I apologize?
Can I celebrate another person’s progress?
Because sometimes the greatest evidence of Christianity is not what happens inside the church building, but how we behave outside it.
5. THEY ONLY FOLLOW JESUS WHEN IT IS CONVENIENT.
Some people want Jesus as Savior but refuse Him as Lord.
They want:
Blessing without obedience.
Breakthrough without discipline.
Promises without repentance.
Heaven without holiness.
The crown without the cross.
But Jesus said:
“If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.” — Luke 9:23
Following Christ will sometimes cost you something.
It may cost you a relationship.
It may cost you an opportunity.
It may cost you popularity.
It may cost you comfort.
It may require you to say:
“No.”
when everybody else is saying:
“Yes.”
A genuine disciple does not follow Jesus only when following Him is profitable.
Real Christianity is tested when obedience becomes costly.
6. THEY HAVE CHRISTIAN KNOWLEDGE BUT NO PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST.
This may be the most frightening sign.
A person can know about Jesus without actually knowing Jesus.
You can memorize Scripture.
You can preach sermons.
You can sing worship songs.
You can teach Sunday school.
You can even perform religious activities.
And still have a heart far from God.
Jesus said in Matthew 7:23:
“I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.”
Those are terrifying words.
Notice something:
Jesus did not say:
“You never knew about Me.”
He said:
“I never knew you.”
Christianity is not merely information about Christ.
It is relationship with Christ.
You can know the Bible and not obey the Author.
You can know Christian vocabulary and not know the Savior.
You can sit in church every Sunday and still be spiritually lost.

📖 BIBLICAL CASE STUDY:

JUDAS ISCARIOT

One of the most sobering examples is Judas.
Judas walked with Jesus.
He heard Jesus teach.
He witnessed miracles.
He was among the disciples.
He participated in ministry.
Yet his heart was not surrendered to Christ.
Eventually, he betrayed Jesus.
This teaches us something uncomfortable:
Being close to Christian activity does not automatically mean being close to Christ.
You can be around the fire and still be cold inside.
You can be around worship and still have an unconverted heart.
You can be around pastors and still need salvation.
You can be a church worker and still need Jesus.
Therefore, don’t ask:
“How long have I been in church?”
Ask:
“Has Christ truly transformed my life?”

🔥 A DEEP SPIRITUAL TRUTH.

Salvation is not proven by perfection; it is evidenced by transformation.
The Christian life is not:

“I never make mistakes.”
It is:
“I no longer want to remain the person I used to be.”
When Christ enters a person’s life, something begins to change.
Their desires begin to change.
Their priorities begin to change.
Their relationships begin to change.
Their attitude toward sin begins to change.
Their hunger for God’s Word begins to change.
Their response to correction begins to change.
Their heart begins to change.
That is the work of grace.

🛠️ PRACTICAL ACTION STEPS.

Examine yourself
Paul says:

“Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith.” — 2 Corinthians 13:5
Don’t only examine your neighbor.
Examine yourself.
2. Repent where necessary
Don’t defend what God is asking you to surrender.
If the Holy Spirit reveals something, repent.
3. Return to God’s Word
Don’t build your Christianity around social media quotes.
Build it around Scripture.
Read it.
Study it.
Believe it.
Practice it.
4. Develop a genuine prayer life
Prayer is not merely asking God for things.
Prayer is relationship.
Talk to God.
Listen to God.
Seek His will.
5. Look for spiritual fruit
Ask:
“Am I becoming more like Christ?”
Not:
“Am I better than someone else?”
6. Make Jesus Lord, not merely Savior
Don’t only ask Jesus to rescue you from hell.
Ask Him to rule your heart.

🤔 QUESTIONS FOR PERSONAL REFLECTION.

If someone watched my life for 30 days, would they see evidence of Christ?
Do I obey God only when obedience benefits me?
What fruit of the Spirit is growing in my life?
How do I treat people who cannot reward me?
Have I genuinely repented of my sins, or have I simply learned Christian language?
Do I know Jesus personally, or do I only know about Him?

🙏 POWERFUL PRAYER POINTS

Prayer of Examination
Father, search my heart and reveal anything in me that is not pleasing to You.
Prayer of Repentance
Lord Jesus, wherever I have lived in disobedience, forgive me and give me grace to turn completely back to You.
Prayer for Transformation
Holy Spirit, transform my character and produce Your fruit in my life.
Prayer for Genuine Faith
Father, remove every form of hypocrisy from my life. Let my Christianity be genuine, not merely outward.
Prayer for Love
Lord, give me grace to love people sincerely, forgive quickly, and represent Christ correctly.
Prayer for Perseverance
Jesus, when following You becomes difficult, give me strength not to turn back.
Prayer for Spiritual Hunger
Lord, give me a deeper hunger for Your Word, prayer, holiness, and Your presence.

🔥 STRONG CLOSING:

DON’T JUST WEAR THE NAME—CARRY THE NATURE.

Church, the greatest question is not:
“Am I called a Christian?”
The greatest question is:
“Does Christ truly live in me?”
Don’t be satisfied because your name is on a church register.
Don’t be satisfied because you have a Bible.
Don’t be satisfied because you attend Christian programs.
Don’t be satisfied because you can quote Scripture.
Don’t be satisfied because people call you “Brother” or “Sister.”
Make sure you know Jesus.
If you have drifted, come back.
If you have been pretending, repent.
If your faith has become merely religious, return to Christ.

If you have never truly surrendered your life to Jesus, today is the day to surrender.
Because one day, every religious mask will fall.
Every title will disappear.
Every reputation will disappear.
Every earthly achievement will disappear.
And we will stand before Christ.
So let our prayer be:

“Lord Jesus, make me a genuine Christian—not merely a Christian by name, but a Christian by nature, character, faith, obedience, and love.”
Don’t just carry the Bible.
Live the Bible.
Don’t just talk about Jesus.
Follow Jesus.
Don’t just wear the name Christian.
Let Christ be seen in you.
May our lives preach the Gospel even when our mouths are silent. In Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.

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